Dating spaniards go from dating to boyfriend
He had a feel of the ‘bad boy’ but he didn’t try to act like one.
It is the way he stood there, confident to the bone, nonchalant and sarcastic with a slow smile and a mysterious aura about him.
Confidence is one of the most attractive features a man can have. The good looking, insecure man will only hold our attention for so long. I was dancing on a rooftop bar in the old area of Panama City when a curly haired guy approached me, rather swaggered over with the most relaxed confidence I have ever seen. It was late and we were heading home, through the old part of Panama, when who do I see, but my bad boy Hugo and another Spanish friend of his heading our way!
But what about the regular guy that has charisma, a sense of mystery and inner confidence? “Whoever the DJ is, he should be shot.” He confided in me as if I had known him for years. Somehow, my girlfriend being the flirt she was, already met and kissed Hugo’s friend that evening while withdrawing cash. Now, he came up to her and almost immediately they started making out as if they were in a room and not a street. Instead he was trying to understand why I never replied to his one message.
That, or thinking for him is as overrated as good singing. What he did next was the most seductive thing I have ever experienced, and the irony in that is that it was not even foreplay.
Hugo’s manner put me at ease immediately, so I laughed and asked him if he was Argentinian. He took my face into his hand and brought his face to mine.
We were quite sick, actually I think we had a fever, but I forced her to leave the house for a ‘drink’ which turned into another drink and yet another drink…
It was getting more and more passionate by the second and I have to admit, I loved the teasing.
Nadia couldn’t stop commenting on how good it was, while I sat there with what she later described as a dumb smile pasted on my face.
I don’t even remember if it was the alcohol or being around him that made me act this way.
The slow seductive kissing from earlier was now much more heated as he pressed me to the wall. I instantly backed away, which made him smile and move into me like a hungry tiger.
We must have looked like two boxers (in a game of seduction!